Mubarak Kapdi
January 5, 2025
Every year on January every year, the past year is often cursed, it is also blamed and a lot of hopes are attached to the New Year. Of course, we do not think that if the past year was bad or went badly, it was us who were the main reason for it because the shortcomings must have been committed by us. We often also think that the coming year will be good anyway. Of course, we do not think that if we lived it well, it will go well, but if we repeat all the mistakes of the previous year, it will not make any difference. Young people! The New Year is a good excuse, but rather an opportunity for new resolutions and 2 commitments. On every December 31st, new plans are prepared, they are written on paper and even in the New Year’s diary, but what is this? On the first of January itself, all that is crushed. In the hustle and bustle of New Year, the eyes open at dawn and the whole day is spent ‘welcoming’ the New Year, putting aside all the timetables and plans. This is why our years change, but the days do not change! On the occasion of the first 25 years of the 21st century, we would like to request the youth to not let disappointment swirl around them in 2025. Just make this pledge: NOT PROBLEMS, RESOURCES: Everyone says, writes, and speaks that they are never disappointed, but some people even claim that they do not know what disappointment means. However, the fact is that everyone suffers from disappointment. Even those who write books and do research on disappointment or depression are not able to save themselves from the black storm of disappointment. However, there are definitely some wise and thoughtful people among them 3 who create light even from the deepest darkness. Where does this insight come from? They take up pen and paper and write down their problems. They have the determination and courage to break down a mountain-like problem into pieces and then crumble it. In fact, they accept the problems but their eyes are always focused on creating resources. To come out of the darkness of despair, our youth should also develop the same insight and vision within themselves:
(1) Disappointment over failure in the exam:
(2) Disappointment over financial hardship:
Today, when the educational, economic, and social systems have been turned upside down due to political intrigues, our youth have to worry about finding ways for themselves and throw off the cloak of despair. Where to start? Youth have to remember that there is a major cause of mental confusion: lack of focus. Sadly, even good, talented, and determined youth often stray from their goals and many even become victims of depression and mental confusion. In this regard, we would like to give two pieces of advice to the youth: first, a directionless life is bound to cause mental stress, so in any case, identify your destination and keep your eyes focused on it from every angle. Our second advice to them is to never change your goals even in times of disaster or 5 calamity. Our youth keep changing their goals repeatedly due to
(a) lack of self-confidence
(b) pressure from parents and elders
(c) their mercurial nature. Changing the goal or purpose of their life only increases mental stress. This is how disappointment and depression arise.
No two people are exactly the same and have the same temperament. Young people! Here you have to adjust with each other. You have to compromise, you have to tolerate. Friends! There is only one person on this earth who can be changed not a little but completely and that is yourself! It is foolish to want to change the situation and the whole world without changing yourself. Young people also imitate the foolishness prevalent in society. They start the quest to change all their peers, their entire classroom, their entire educational institution. Of course, they do not start the change with themselves. That is why they do not get any great success and frustration begins from there. 6 We would like to tell the young people to put their strength and energy into their actions instead of their words. An ideal personality is formed from there which then becomes a role model for others and for that, they should try to create discipline in their lives. Due to the discipline and discipline of living, he does not suffer from mental stress, so he always has peace of mind, while an unorganized person always suffers from chaos, confusion and boredom, depression begins from there. IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND PRIORITIES: Friends! For us to completely get rid of frustration and depression, we will now have to get rid of ‘globalization’. We are the heirs of the red stone of the Red Fort and the white stone of the Taj Mahal, we have never understood that geographical lines are heavy on history. Geography itself makes history. What should we do now? Youth! If bulldozers have also run over the small businesses of our community, it does not mean that this country has now become a bulldozer republic. I would 7 also like to give our youth some special thoughts:
(1) How long will we continue to do business on the sidewalks of stalls, junk shops and shacks?
(2) When will we enter the corporate business?
(3) No matter what other sects do, how long will we continue to do illegal construction?
(4) When will we build our own luxurious business houses where no bird will fly under the security?
(5) Meat etc. businesses are common in our community, now will we do the same business from generation to generation? Why doesn’t the new generation adopt its new paths based on higher education? If we throw away all the bundles of disappointment in the new year and realize our priorities, then the new year and every year will be successful.
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